What would the tone and volume of your home be like if you tried this biblical approach: 

"See that no one repays another with evil for evil, but always seek after that which is good for one another" (I Thessalonians 5:15).

Few of us do patience very well, and none of us do it naturally.  But wise men and women will pursue it as an essential ingredient to their marriage relationship. 

From The Love Dare (Day 1: Love is Patient)